MARRIAGE HELP
When vehicles break down, they are quickly repaired to ensure movements are smoothly operational. We also plan regular maintenances to ensure their availability. Similarly, people consult physicians or doctors for check-up whenever they are unwell. We also look for preventive remedies like, exercises, eating well in order to live healthy.
Spouses practicing urgent corrective measures expressed with love avoid negative indications that might affect proper functioning of this noble institution. When overwhelming challenges come, it is wise and important to seek help in order to prevent worst scenarios leading to separation or divorce.
This is why we have launched this platform in order to reach and offer couples coaching help, as guided by God.
On Divorce Matters
God's Original Design for Marriage
As Christians, we believe rightly so that God instituted marriage from the beginning, starting with the creation of Adam and Eve. His divine plan is for spouses to live in harmony and remain together until death. Malachi 2:16 (NIV)
“God hates divorce.”
In Matthew 19:8, when Jesus was questioned by the Pharisees about why Moses allowed divorce, He replied: “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.”
The Shift in Society
Those of us who grew up during the 1960s and 1970s witnessed many couples living harmoniously, even amidst challenges. Though some experienced separation or divorce, it wasn’t common or casually accepted. Today, however, society seems to have normalized separation and divorce. Many now view marriage either:
Casually,
As an experiment, or
As a means to an end, where even the marriage certificate is sometimes treated lightly.
Some couples choose to live together informally, and if things don’t work out, they simply part ways with no commitment or sense of permanence. As a result, those who uphold the sanctity of marriage often find themselves in the minority.
There is Still Hope
Despite this shift, many spouses are still genuinely seeking resolution to their marital problems. Their main challenge lies in finding effective ways to resolve conflicts—not in a lack of desire to make things work.
That’s why we’re here:
To walk with couples, helping them navigate their challenges and build lasting love, in line with God’s purpose.
Let us help you rediscover the joy, unity, and commitment that marriage was always meant to bring.
On Separation
Understanding Separation in Marriage
There are many reasons why separation occurs in marriage. In most cases, it is the result of unresolved challenges that have built up over time.
For some couples, separation becomes a way to:
Assess their relationship, and
Decide whether to move toward reconciliation or head toward divorce.
The Right Time to Seek Help
Just like we seek medical attention when we’re physically unwell, it’s important to act when emotional or relational pain becomes evident in a marriage. When signs of separation become clear and strong, timely intervention is crucial.That’s where we come in. We are here to help you:
Recognize the warning signs,
Navigate the emotional turmoil, and
Work toward healing and restoration.
Let us walk with you through this difficult phase—toward clarity, peace, and possibly, reconciliation.
However, misunderstandings and challenges can sometimes lead to unhappy relationships. Among the most serious threats to marriage is infidelity.
On Infidelity
A Violation of Trust in Marriage
Marriage, as sanctified by God, is meant to bring a husband and wife together in a union that is:
Intimate,
Emotional,
Physical, and
Spiritual.
However, misunderstandings and challenges can sometimes lead to unhappy relationships. Among the most serious threats to marriage is infidelity.
The Impact of Infidelity
Infidelity often leads to:
Domestic strife,
Separation, or
Divorce.
Whether it is emotional or physical unfaithfulness, one or both partners may:
Be seeking ways to stop,
Be trying to avoid the temptation, or
Be unsure of how to disclose the truth to their spouse.
You’re Not Alone
If infidelity is something you’re currently dealing with in your marriage, we are here to support you with compassion and confidentiality.
Let us help you:
Navigate the pain,
Rebuild trust, and
Seek a path toward healing for both you and your marriage.
